AgentMail compose/send failed with 'cannot validate certificate for 127.0.0.1
because it doesn't contain any IP SANs': the sender dialed the local relay at
127.0.0.1:25 and net/smtp pinned the TLS ServerName to the dial host, but the
relay's cert is for mail.<host>. Reimplement smtpSend (mirrors net/smtp.SendMail)
with an overridable IMAPConfig.SMTPServerName; default it to the mail host
(AGENTBBS_MAIL_SMTP_SERVERNAME). Now we dial the loopback for relay permission
yet verify the real hostname cert — no /etc/hosts hack. setup.sh upserts the new
var. Tested against a fake SMTP server (full MAIL/RCPT/DATA flow).
Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.8 <noreply@anthropic.com>
